Understanding Nursing Home Costs and Asset Risk
Many families are concerned about what happens to their assets, particularly their home, when long-term nursing home care becomes necessary. It’s important to clarify that nursing homes themselves cannot directly take your house or require you to sell it as a condition for care. However, financial consequences may arise if you use Medicaid to pay for nursing home services. Medicaid, a joint federal and state program, provides help to individuals with limited income and assets, but it comes with stringent rules regarding asset ownership and recovery after death [1] .
Medicaid Estate Recovery: How It Works
When a Medicaid beneficiary passes away, states are required by federal law to seek reimbursement for long-term care costs through the Medicaid Estate Recovery Program (MERP) . This typically means the state can place a claim on the deceased person’s estate, which may include their home. Assets are never seized while the individual is alive ; recovery efforts happen only after death. If the home is part of the estate, Medicaid may file a lien to recover costs paid for nursing home care [2] .
However, states offer certain exemptions and protections. For example, if a surviving spouse, child under 21, or a blind/disabled child lives in the home, Medicaid may not pursue recovery. Many states also allow a “homestead exemption” for a primary residence, but these rules vary. Consulting an elder law attorney is essential for understanding protections available in your state [2] .
Strategies to Protect Your Home
There are several legal and financial strategies that can help protect your home from being subject to Medicaid estate recovery. Each approach has unique considerations, and working with an experienced attorney who specializes in elder law or estate planning is critical.
1. Transferring Property to Family Members
It may be possible to transfer ownership of your home to certain family members without incurring a Medicaid penalty. These transfers usually must occur before Medicaid’s five-year “look-back” period. Exemptions include:
- Spouse: You can transfer your home to your spouse at any time without penalty.
- Minor, blind, or disabled child: Transfers to children under 21, or those who are blind or disabled, are generally exempt.
- Child caregiver: If your child lived in the home and provided care for at least two years prior to your nursing home admission, you may transfer the property without penalty.
- Sibling exemption: Transfers to a sibling who has an equity interest in the home and lived there for at least one year before admission are also exempt [4] .
All transfers must be carefully planned and documented. Improper transfers can disqualify you from Medicaid for a period of time, so legal guidance is essential.

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2. Establishing a Life Estate
A life estate allows you to retain the right to live in your home for the rest of your life, but ownership is transferred to another person (often a child). Upon your death, the property passes directly to the new owner and may avoid probate and Medicaid recovery, provided the arrangement was set up at least five years before applying for Medicaid. Life estates are complex and must be structured properly to avoid unintended consequences [1] .
3. Irrevocable Trusts
Transferring your home into an irrevocable trust may protect it from Medicaid estate recovery. Unlike a revocable trust, assets in an irrevocable trust are no longer considered yours. However, this must be done well in advance of needing Medicaid, due to the look-back period. Trusts must be set up correctly to avoid legal challenges and penalties [4] .
4. Consult an Elder Law Attorney
Every situation is unique, and laws vary by state. An elder law attorney can help you assess your situation, explain local protections, and create a plan to safeguard your assets. Many attorneys offer initial consultations to discuss your options. For example, the law firm O’Connell and Aronowitz provides specialized advice for New York residents and can be reached at (518) 584-5205 [2] .
Resident Rights and Protections
Federal and state laws guarantee certain rights for nursing home residents. Under the law, nursing homes must provide written notice before discharging or transferring a resident, typically at least 30 days in advance, except in emergencies. Residents also have the right to participate in their care planning, appeal decisions, and involve family in care discussions [3] , [5] .

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If you face a discharge or asset risk due to nursing home costs, you may request mediation, file an appeal, or ask for a hearing. Each state’s Department of Health or Long-Term Care Ombudsman program can provide guidance and support. In Maryland, for example, residents can file complaints or seek injunctions through the Office of Health Care Quality or local courts [5] .
Step-by-Step Guidance to Protect Your Home
- Assess Your Eligibility: Before applying for Medicaid, review your assets and consult an elder law attorney.
- Explore Exemptions: Investigate whether transfers to family members or a life estate arrangement suit your needs.
- Plan Ahead: Take action well before you expect to need nursing home care-ideally more than five years in advance.
- Document Everything: Maintain clear records of property transfers, trust arrangements, and legal consultations.
- Appeal Decisions: If faced with a discharge or recovery action, file for mediation or a hearing through your state’s administrative process.
- Contact Local Resources: Reach out to your state’s Long-Term Care Ombudsman, Department of Health, or legal aid organizations for support.
Potential Challenges and Solutions
Protecting your home can be complicated. Challenges include Medicaid’s look-back period, legal complexities of trusts and life estates, and state-specific rules. Working with professionals, planning early, and understanding your rights are key to overcoming these obstacles. If you’re unsure where to start, search for “elder law attorneys” in your state or contact your local Area Agency on Aging for referrals. Many states offer free or low-cost legal aid for seniors.
Alternative Approaches
If you do not qualify for Medicaid or wish to avoid estate recovery, consider long-term care insurance or saving for nursing home expenses. Some families choose to downsize, sell their home before needing care, or use proceeds for a private facility. Each option has benefits and trade-offs-consult financial advisors and legal experts to determine the best path for your situation.
Key Takeaways
While nursing homes cannot directly take your house, Medicaid estate recovery can place your home at risk after your death if Medicaid paid for your care. By planning ahead, utilizing legal exemptions, establishing trusts or life estates, and consulting with professionals, you can protect your home and legacy for your loved ones. Begin with thorough research, expert guidance, and proactive planning to secure your family’s future.
References
- [1] Harbor Life Settlements (2023). How to Avoid A Nursing Home Taking Your House: 7 Methods.
- [2] O’Connell and Aronowitz (2023). Protecting the Family Home Against Nursing Home Costs.
- [3] Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services (2022). Your Rights and Protections as a Nursing Home Resident.
- [4] Siniard Law (2024). Can Alabama Nursing Homes Claim Assets Held in Trust?
- [5] The Maryland People’s Law Library (2025). Nursing Home Care and Resident Rights.